Every relationship takes place within a field. Before words, before gestures, even before the meeting, there’s an information field at work. This is the morphic field of relationship. It is made up of emotional memories, learned patterns, family histories, past experiences, and subconscious beliefs about love, bond and belonging. That’s why we often don’t just relate to the person in front of us, but with the entire field ahead of her – and with ours. This is how standards repeat…
